Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Get Your Girlfriend Back - Keeping and Holding on to Your Girlfriend Once You Have Her Back

If you truly love her and are willing to spend time and efforts in getting your ex girlfriend back, all is not lost unless she has decided to move on with another guy.

To give you some great help getting your girlfriend back, I have pulled together one of the most effective strategies. This method is a great way to get a girl to almost instantly change her mind about you. This will give you a better chance of getting your ex girlfriend back.

Normally when a girl breaks up with you, she is claiming that she no longer needs or wants your love any more. However the truth is that most women (and men) always want to be loved, or feel loved. Even girlfriends who have recently rejected you and say that they want more space, or whatever reason they gave you.

This is basic human nature that we like people to like us. So even if a girl has broken up with you, she still wants you to like her. This is a very powerful human emotion we can use to our benefit.

Win Your Girlfriend Back

Firstly if you have been chasing after your ex in the hope to get her back, you need to stop. If you have not been chasing after your ex, then do not start! You have to give your ex girl the cold shoulder. Now I am not talking to go overboard, but stop all contact for the mean time, (unless it is for emergencies of course). Do this for a week or two.

The idea is to invoke a reaction inside a girl's head, were there was constant contact with you two. Then all the sudden, the contact stops and the tables are turned slightly in your favour. Here we are trying to use another powerful emotion, which is curiosity. We want a girl to be wondering why you have not been trying to get in touch with her.

Of course you do not want to do this for to long and let things go of the boil. You need to try and keep the curiosity and flame alive if you to have any chance of getting your ex girlfriend back. The best way to start this initial contact again is with a letter or email. Choose whatever one you are comfortable with. Letters can be more personal but they are a bit old hat these days, so pick and go with that.

Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Now

In this letter / email you need to start of by apologising if you have done something wrong (like cheating). Do not be to quick to apologise if you have nothing to apologise for. Whether or not you apologise; it is also very important to say that you agree with the break up. Then you can finalise the letter / email by saying that you hope you two can catch up again sometime in the future.

It could also be good to include something unique to your situation and ex-girlfriend. Like good luck with your driving lesson, or something similar. Basically something friendly to show that there are no hard feelings.

Do not make this letter / email to complicated, just apologise, agree with the break up and say you hope to catch up in the future.

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